by
Christina Patrice
If you stay ready,
You ain’t got to get ready
[Repeat 2x]
Wise words once spoken by the Oakland born, Compton raised, and Pomona living west coast rapper Suga Free. What exactly does that have to do with natural hair, Christina?
For me…everything! It’s really important when it comes to how I go about preserving and maintaining my edges. Yes, edges. You see, “if you stay ready, you ain’t got to get ready” is kind of like my mantra around saving, preserving and maintaining my edges.
Before you write me off as a nutcase, let me explain why. I won’t go into much detail because there is TONS of information about what edges are, and how to regrow them. But just as a launching point:
• Edges of the hair are incredibly fragile. They are among the finest and most delicate strands of hair on your head. Click here for more on that.
• Traction alopecia is real. The results are damaging and sometimes irreversible.
• Prevention is the best cure. If your edges are in a good place now, maintaining them will be really easy.
• If you suffer from a medical condition such as alopecia areata or severe postpartum shedding, it is best to seek the advice of a medical professional (as always).
I’m sure by now, you’ve cycled through all the generic information about preventing traction alopecia and perimeter breakage i.e.
• not pulling hair back too tightly on a regular basis
• ditching anything that has rubber exposed
• looser ponytails and buns
• moving the location of said ponytail and bun regularly
• avoiding excessive brushing/hard bristle brushes
• chilling on the cornrows and weaves
• ditching drying gels for sleek edges
• not sleeping in ponytails and buns
• no cotton scarves and pillowcases
• switching up where you part your hair
For me, practices are only one piece of the puzzle. The other part is product-based: protecting my edges with moisturizers, butters, and oils that hydrate, protect, and stimulate the hair around my edges. Why stimulate? So I ain’t got to get ready!Every other night (sometimes every night), I go through a LCB or LCO method around the perimeter of my head. For those that are unfamiliar, both LCB and LCO are methods for layering products to obtain the most moisture retention. LCB = Liquid/Leave-In, Cream, Butter and LCO = the same, with the O being Oil.
Whichever method you use (or even LOC) on the length of your hair, you can feel free to use on the edges and around the perimeter of your hair. You don’t need to use a lot of product, and if you do it right (a dime size or less of everything), you won’t run the risk of ruining any style you’re trying to preserve.
Here is how I apply my product, and which products I’ve used that work for this method of edges and perimeter preservation:
Liquid: Water, or any type of water-based refresher, spritz, or leave-in conditioner. My current picks in this area are ApHogee Curlific Leave-In and Ella’s Concoctions Juicy Nectar Spritzer.
Cream:Â Water-based lotion or cream product that packs a moisturizing punch. In this area, I cycle through Shea Moisture Curl Enhancing Smoothie, tgin Butter Cream Daily Moisturizer, Soultanicals Fluffalicious Curl Nutricious, and Qhemet Biologics Burdock Root Butter Cream.
Butter/Oil: Eden BodyWorks Peppermint Temple Balm, Kyra’s Shea Medley’s Rejuvenation Butter Cream, DIY Fluffy Styling Cream, or Flax Oil (a new favorite, but it smells like the dickens).
I use these products not only because they smell and feel awesome on my edges and my hair, but because they contain ingredients that are known to nourish and stimulate the scalp and hair. If you have a favorite liquid, cream, butter and/or oil combination that you use, definitely rock with that! There is absolutely no need to add any more products to your arsenal than what you already have (unless you’re a product junkie and just want to).
By cycling through my select products and combining them with the proper moisturizing and edge-safe styling techniques, I was able to transition successfully for nearly two years without any emergency edge situations. Keeping your edges as healthy as possible along every step of your natural hair journey will help ensure that you don’t end up frantically seeking out growth potions months down the line. Prevention is the best cure. Stay ready, so you ain’t got to get ready.
As an aside, if you’re looking for edge-friendly products to use to safely slick back a bun, ponytail, or updo, click here.
How do you keep your edges in stay ready mode?
For more transitioning and natural hair tips from Christina, check out her blog, The Mane Objective. You can also find her on YouTube, Instagram and Facebook.
23 Responses
This article just confused me. So which method is best for moisturize retention??
The LOC or LCB method?
Has anyone ever stopped to consider than there might be nutritional deficiencies for this problem? Or stress?
Vitamin D and Vitamin B are vital to hair. So is silica and sulfur. Anemia can also cause this problem. Get a blood workup. Check your ranges and manage your stress–then revisit this arguement again later.
Also, banded caps and hats are the devil! They will rub your edges out! Wear a scarf (not too tightly secured around the edges) or sleep on a satin pillow.
Onion juice and eating lightly grilled onions is working for me. My edges were super short. In less than two weeks of applying onion juice with a light oil to my edges nightly– I estimate 1/4″ of hair growth –no lie. I cannot wait to see what I have 1 month from now. I still have some shorter patches that might reflect damage, but the growth overall is amazing. I remove the onion juice gently in the morning by dabbing a little witch hazel and water and seal. Onion is extremely high in sulfur.
I also drink cucumber juice, and eat oatmeal. Cucumbers and oatmeal are high in silica.
Where I can get the oil
This is a good post and it has vital info I suffered from traction alopecia badly i made a video about it, and I also made a video about how to prevent it with protective styling
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yDZ-POT-F4w
Pretty healthy hair!
Maybe if people wouldn’t spend so much time on their edges, then it would possible grow. Sometimes less is more. Just leave those edges alone. I have never had problems with mine when I was relaxed or natural. I just don’t see the what the deal is with edges. Some people just do the most when it isn’t needed.
Lol, it’s true, stop brushing your edges and work on your hair.
Moisturize the edges and seal and protect, there is no golden route for edges because its hair like the rest of the hair on your head. So it should be treated as such.Twisting, and twirling them all the time is going to lead to breakage. I never had problems with my edges either because i treated them like the rest of my normal hair, the problem stems from handling the edges to darn much and putting gels that contain petro oil which wears down the hair.
And people use hard brushes on their edges every night and start wondering why their edges look like Tyson Beckford or Wayne Brady. LOL
It is sometimes difficult to relate to something you haven’t experienced. Thin edges (hairline) is a major problem with AA females.
I assume (correct me if I am wrong) that most of the visitors on this site are women. I am trying to let some people know that it is natural for them, as women, to have a few short hairs around the perimeter because due to female hormones, females have irregular hairlines…no matter the sexual orientation. I think a lot of people confuse the natural short hairs around the hairline as breakage. I also notice that a lot of natural girls think their edges are damaged and breaking because their edges resemble Naptural85’s instead a hairline in a invisible hairline video (I urge everyone to go to youtube and type invisble hairline in the search bar…you will see what I am talkinging about). My hairline resembles the girl from “AuCurls Naturelle” on youtube ( search her I cannot provide a link from my phone) and I have noticed that people comment that edges like hers look thin. I am letting some of the newer naturals out there know that if they are taking good care of their hair but their edges look like Naptura85’s or the girl mentioned above, they are doing nothing wrong. No harm in that 🙂
Bump.
My struggle area is my kitchen. I don’t understand why it just doesn’t seem to grow. I pay special attention to it while moisturizing and sealing my hair. In the rare instances that I do lose a loc, it’s in the kitchen area.
I keep my hair moisturized and don’t re-twist at all. I have a bad habit of playing with my hairline…that’s something I’m working on.
Often times when I get flat twists or smaller twists I will part my edges down the sides and flat twist them separately long ways (from forehead down to the ear) as opposed to the other more natural direction. This allows me to moisturize it nightly without ruining my style our having to re twist multiple individuals instead of one long one.
I get the point of wanting to have healthy edges, but i don’t get it when black women say you should have zero short hairs around your hairline. I thought the difference between a mans and womens hairline is that feminime hairline is less clean cut. That is why males get there edges cleaned up at the barber…because it looks masculine. It confuses me when a women looks at a woman with “Baby hairs” and says their hairline is thin and looks damaged. Women do not have clean cut hairlines, the is a masculine trait. It is natural and looks fine for women to have a few “baby hairs”(regardless of the texture) around there hairline. That is a female hairline. Ive seen several black women look at a picture of women with the natural “baby hairs” and say that there edges looked thin. Once again…a feminime hairline is not clean cut. I starting to wonder if some black women confuse the natural short hairs around the hairline as breakage/damage. A women would look slightly …er…masculine if the had 100% full edges with 0 “baby hairs.”
I think this article is referring to damaged hairlines. I naturally have parts of my hair line that have always been shorter, but due to relaxers other areas of my hairline experienced breakage and therefore appear shorter and thinner. I see quite a bit of women with damaged edges, I think when women go natural they often focus on repairing their hairlines, but often continue to contribute to the damage. I get what you saying though. That’s why I grew out my “kitchen” and just embraced it as an attribute to my hairline.
I know some people have damaged edges. But I think alot of naturals think they should have a clean cut hairline (they like to call them full) where the hair just starts and every hair after that is the same length. According to scientist, the female hairline is irregular(that is why it is more likely for a woman to have a widows peak) and men have more regular hairline. There is a difference between broken hairs and baby hairs. However i know alot of black women who shave(clean up the “be-bes”) on there neck with razors and rub castor oil their edges thinking that they “fill in” there edges because they are irreggular. The female hairline naturally irregular. A lot of bw think there hairlines should look like those invisible hairline videos on youtube (just look up invisible hairlines on youtube). Females will never have that no matter how much jbco they rub on it. I do not know why some black women want the harsh blunt hairline of a man who just got a fade at the barbershop. A women has an irregular hairline. It softens the face making it more feminime.
You seem really hung-up on masculine and feminine.
Why shouldn’t we want to look feminine?
Most of us women and girls here! So why the heck not? Besides with that study out I am not surprised some black women don’t want to embrace the “masculine” hair line look thats been seeping into our culture. I hope a black woman admitting she embraces and wants to look feminine is not offensive these days and shouldn’t be treated like a darn alien.
I think black women should pamper themselves to feel more lady like especially with us getting smacked around by the media. So I don’t think its a hang up. I take it as embracing your womanhood. I wear dresses and I cry. So what? And I like my natural healthy hair line that is soft and frames my face.
Smh.
Ain’t nothing wrong with being a lady.
now what now? uh?
Okay, I’m just going to ask and sound like an idiot. What exactly are edges?
I mean, the hair around my hairline is as long as the rest of my hair and the exact same texture so I don’t treat it any differently. Tight headbands hurt, so I don’t wear them and when I wear a regular headband or elastic…I just wear it. I mean, I’m not trying to make it super smooth in front of the headband, I’m just holding the hair back? Since quitting relaxers, I’ve discovered that I do have a little peach fuzz on my forehead (not even enough to call baby hairs) but I don’t do anything to it. Are those edges?
yup, edges are basically your hairline. and its usually naturally short, but i am completely amazed at those who have their hairline as long as the
rest of their hair. i think that’s really cool.
Since going natural 3 years ago, my edges are the same length as the rest of my hair. But when I was relaxed my edges were never longer than 2ish inches in the front and may 3 or so inches in the back. I assumed that this normal since everyone I knew had short edges. I never really paid attention to my hairline until a family friend asked me how I managed to grow out and take care of my edges. That’s when I noticed how long they were. So I just assumed that my previously short hair line was caused by damaging relaxers.
After reading this post and other people’s comments on the matter I’ve begun to wonder it is normal to have naturally short hairs along the hairline or if those short hairs are actually the result of breakage
agreed. my “edges” don’t get treat any different than the rest of my hair = because it doesn’t look or act any different. so I was wondering how losing them actually happens. according to the article it just sounds like bad hair care practices