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7 Reasons I Only Sell Whipped Butter Instead of Creating a Full HairCare/BodyCare Line

• Apr 6, 2018

Since announcing to my readers that my 10-year-old natural hair blog, Black Girl with Long Hair, is officially defunct I’ve gotten a lot of questions about how and why I made this transition, and where I see my brand going. That’s a lot of ground to cover, so I am chopping up my story into bite-sized pieces to share over the next several weeks. Today I wanted to talk about why I haven’t expanded outside of whipped butter products.

As many of you know, BGLH Marketplace started out of my career as a natural hair and beauty blogger. And during that time I covered many indie beauty brands that were started by black women and grew to be incredibly successful — for example TGIN by blogger Chris-Tia Donaldson, Alikay Naturals by vlogger Rochelle Graham and Camille Rose Naturals by Janell Stephens. When my own brand started (kinda accidentally, read about that here) and gained some traction, I assumed I would go down the same route — expanding my whipped butters into a full natural hair care line that would eventually be carried in a big box retailer. But I have realized that my lane is completely different. Here is why I’ve stuck to whipping shea, cocoa and mango butter instead of creating a full natural hair care or body care line.

1. BGLH Marketplace has morphed into a skincare company.
When I started making my products it was from a natural hair blogger stand point. I was using ingredients — shea butter, coconut oil — I’d heard referenced over and over again in the natural hair community. Imagine my surprise when I found that customers were buying my products specifically for skin. I came to realize that there are huge gaps in the skincare market that are not being addressed — and they hit black women especially hard. I have since shifted my focus and now market my products as multi-use, with skincare as my entry point. Which brings me to my next point…

2. The natural hair care market is saturated.
Back when I started blogging in 2008 the ‘natural hair’ section of drugstores and big box retailers had tumbleweeds blowing through it. And then Target began adding proven brands like Shea Moisture (the old school Shea Moisture, before all the changes…), Oyin and Kinky Curly to their shelves. Beauty supply stores followed suit. Haircare behemoths like Pantene and Dove got in the act, releasing natural hair lines that weren’t half bad. Suddenly black women had a plethora of options when it came to natural hair care. There really isn’t any kind of gap I feel the need to fill.

3. I am not a ‘stir and pour’ beauty company. In fact, I operate more like a bakery.
Oh how I wish whipping shea butter was a fast and easy process. It isn’t. Each batch of shea, mango or cocoa butter is whipped for 70 minutes minimum and I can only whip 5 pounds of product at a time, because that is the capacity of the mixers I use. While I’ve found ways to make this process efficient, and I create a respectable amount of product every month (about 2500 units) this is peanuts compared to brands that can bottle thousands of stir and pour formulas at a time. And while this does get frustrating it leads me to my next point…

4. There is a need for whipped butter products.
Many people love shea butter, cocoa butter and mango butter. The problem? The butters are dense and difficult to apply. You have to double boil or microwave them down, and then slap the oily mess onto your body. And while you could whip your own butter at home, it is a messy and time-intensive process. And that’s where I come in. I have figured out all the pain-in-the-ass details of whipping shea, cocoa and mango butter so you don’t have to. It’s not easy work, but it is valuable. While there are a plethora of whipped butter brands on Etsy, there are very few that have broken out onto the market in a big way. Belle Butters, a black-woman-owned company that was really a pioneer in the whipped butter game, just closed in February after 8 years in business, so I feel even more of a motivation to stay where I’m at to fill this gap.

5. Shea, cocoa and mango butter can do a hell of a lot.
My whipped butters have eliminated at least 4 other beauty products in my regimen, and I stay glowing.

No filter…

Most days I don’t feel like I’m selling just one product, I feel like I’m selling 5. There are those who buy it for hair, those who buy it for skin, those who buy it as a perfume alternative, those who buy it as a massage oil alternative, those who buy it to heal chapped lips, those who buy it for beard care. I feel like I have half of a full body line in one product TBH.

6. Lots of people don’t even know what shea, cocoa and mango butter are.
When you blog for as long as I did (10 years!) you can take a lot of things for granted — like the fact that everybody knows what shea, cocoa and mango butter are. Everybody doesn’t. Everyday in my storefront I meet people (yes, black people too) who have NEVER heard of them and have no clue what they do. A lot of my job involves educating people on the effectiveness of these ingredients.

7. I don’t want to create a full product line. I’m happy where I’m at.
Do I want to learn how to cold process soap? Nope.
Do I want to make body wash? Nope.
Do I want to make a hair gel or a leave in conditioner? Nope and nope.
Do I want to make bath bombs? Hell no.
Do I want to make body scrubs? Actually maybe, I am educating myself on the power of exfoliation and have been playing around with some things.

And this is not to say I never will. But *right now* I’m happy with where I’m at. I love the opportunity to focus on one thing and do it really, really well.

I’m based in Brooklyn. I have a cute little storefront. People love my stuff. Honestly I am content.

I started Black Girl with Long Hair when I was 22 and, due to youth and immaturity, I viewed it through a very competitive lens. I felt a need to keep up with what other natural hair bloggers were doing and out-perform them. It drove me crazy. I am 32 now with 3 kids. IDGAF what other people are doing.

Running my business in its current form gives me time to spend with my kids, time to go out on dates, time to get out into the city, time to try my hand at stand up comedy (which is a legit hobby right now…) I am happy with my life and that is most important to me.

My only nebulous goal at the moment is to get BGLH Marketplace from a 6 figure to a 7 figure brand, because I know it has that potential. I am also finally releasing some butters that do not contain coconut oil (which many people hate) and almond oil (which some are allergic to.) But there is no rush on those fronts.

I hope this was informative. As always leave any feedback in the comments!

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49 Comments on "7 Reasons I Only Sell Whipped Butter Instead of Creating a Full HairCare/BodyCare Line"

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Thanks for sharing! Great insight!!!

QuYahni Lewis

Thank you for this. Seriously just encouraged me to stay in my lane. One question, though: I used to use an organic mango soap and, while it was great for my skin, its after smell was akin to cat pee. No lie. I’ve found this to be the case with mangoes (and peaches in general, which I didn’t notice till after using the soap). Please tell me that your mango butter doesn’t have a crazy after smell. And, I’m gathering from your beautiful photo that I can use your butters on my face without clogging my pores?


I loved reading this and this is my first time actually reading most of a blog that does not have anything to do with infants or toddlers. I have a question though. How do I determine which butter to use?


I love this and am glad that you are staying in your lane. I’m studying acupuncture and I intend to have your products in my practice as I learn my new lane lol. Much love and blessings,and greater success is coming! Lina


Love your authenticity! 💜

Allison Matthews

Life is not all about money. You need to have time for you and your kids. Running a business is a great responsibility. When we find our niche we would learn contentment.


I hate your BGLH is defunct, but I totally get the product expansion thing. If it aint broke dont keep expanding it. Your quality of life is important. Think of all the businesses out here that pretty much create just one or two products that are household names.

Nnenna Fakoya-Smith
Well done Leila! I love it when someone finds their niche in a big industry and works towards making their own impact no matter how little. Its liberating! I understand because I am in that process now. Keep doing what you do and keep being contented…that’s the only way we can really truly enjoy life. One day when I visit Brooklyn (typing all the way from Lagos, Nigeria!), I would def stop over at your store to buy me some ya whipping cream *wink* Though it sad to see the old BGLH grow (it was a great inspiration to transiting… Read more »
We’ve actually met in your store, although I don’t expect you to remember. I’ve been a follower since you had the BGLH blog, and I was ordering online long before you had a storefront. I’m glad you are solely focused on this lane because YOU ARE KILLING IT!!! My skin is persnickety and your butters help keep my dry skin issues in check. And they SMELL WONDERFUL! I had to start buying my daughter her own so she would stop thiefing mine. I use the Cocoa-Shea blend, the Lavender, Lemongrass and I just tried the Sandalwood. I use them on… Read more »

Thank you for sharing your story! I used to follow the blog but I have not tried your butter yet, I had planned to but still trying to get rid of stuff I already have — I am a product junkie. Thank you for what you do. I do love whipped butters and go through them quickly. I actually brought cocoa butter, mango and shea butter to mix my own, well that was a few years ago and I still have some of the product collecting dust on my dresser. I look forward to buying your butter

Shavon Smart

I am so happy you shared that…I really like the parr where you said IDGAFwhat other people are doing… That is where i am at. Do what works for you that os your own lane and there is nothing wrong with that. I love shea butter and have my own products that are in the works of rising. Scented body butter! Keep up the good work…you are very inspiring! Blessings and Love Queen!!


You are glowing! Congrats on staying on your own lane, producing skin care products for Black women. What a great idea! I sold whipped shea butter for a while too, and I have to agree they’re messy and time intensive, so I shut it down!


That is awesome!! And maturity is a wonderful thing, isn’t it?? LOL! Congrats lady!

Asiya hendricks

youre dope for sharing this…i had no idea you had a shop in brooklyn, i will definitely be stopping by!

Staci Simpson

I just wanted to say that your African black soap is awesome! My skin has cleared up, and I get compliments on my skin. My mom loves the soap too. I will be purchasing more.

Ava Brown

Stick to the perfection that you’ve created. I LOVE this stuff. Getting ready to order even more and I want to thank you SOOOO much for creating this masterpiece for my lazy self. 🙂


Can I just tell you that I am IN LOVE with your whipped butters and, while I would never stunt another sister’s hustle, I hope you stay doing one thing really well! 🙂

denise M

your skin looks great! I use the products for skin. but the coconut oil gives me acne so i cant use it near my hairline or face. would lovvvve a coconut oil free product 🙂


You said you’re planning on releasing butters without coconut or almond oils. Any idea when that’ll be happening? I’d like to try those.


I love that you provide this “behind the scenes” information!


Understandble! Your products will always be great! 🙂


Is there a way to access the hair info from the old blog? Like in an archive? Gonna miss checking in to read an article here and there.

But also proud of your growth! Gonna purchase summo’ shea butter soon 🙂


Very interesting . I wish you the best of your continued success.


Thanks for sharing. I applaude your ability to recognize whats best for you and stay true to it. You are truly an inspiration. Be Blessed Sister Queen!!


Patiently waiting on the coconut oil free formula to be released!!! ✌🏾&❤️

Monique (SoFull Sista)
Monique (SoFull Sista)

Leila! Omg girl, it’s been forever. I am so excited to see how much you’ve flourished. Do your thing, and know that if you need anything, reach out!

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