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Finding the Protective Style that Fits Your Personality

• Feb 14, 2013


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By Jc of The Natural Haven Bloom

Some hair can gain length without protective styling but some hair simply cannot. If you are in this latter category, you will have to try to spend more time in a protective style and honestly not everyone can do it effectively especially with own hair braids and twists. If you have been slacking on protective styling because the style itself is an issue, here is my guide to matching your personality to your protective style:

1. You are not particularly patient and you want fast results

If you are the person who wants long hair and you want it yesterday, then the message of being patient and waiting several years to gain length will quickly be pushed aside. You may be tempted by products that promise faster growth, be constantly on the search for the perfect ‘holy grail’ product that would help you achieve your goal or you may indeed be discouraged by the fact that your hair may not gain an inch every month.
This does not mean that you cannot retain and grow your hair long. If your goal is long hair, then spending some time with your hair in extensions (braids or weaves) or wigs may well serve to give you some satisfaction of longer hair that you can immediately play with for a while. You must of course make sure that your braids or weaves are installed well and that you care for your own hair during the time that it is in extensions or under a wig. Extensions and wigs can actually help you increase your patience and keep a protective style in for longer. You should spend periods of time though without extensions to make sure you are knowledgeable on how to handle your hair as it gains the length that you desire.

2. Having your hair looking cute is more important than keeping length

There are some among us who really cannot live in 3 week old braids or twists. There are some naturals who hate twists and braids because they feel that they look scalpy. These are all valid arguments for choosing a non-protective style simply because it is more aesthetically pleasing to those individuals. However, if your hair requires protective styling to grow longer and that is your desire, you can still do it.
Your ideal protective style is likely to be a bun. This is a quick way to tuck in those ends and maintain a smooth non-fuzzy look (we all know the smooth hair trick — spray with water, tiny bit of oil, tie down a scarf for 15–30 minutes). Buns, however, do not work for all hair types as a protective style. If your hair prefers little to no handling, even the little bit of finger detangling that you do to maintain a bun as a daily style may affect your hair length retention. In this case, take a trip to Youtube and look up the beautiful pinned up twists and braids that could help you look cute and still retain length.

3. Your are patient with your hair, your sole goal is to get longer hair

If you are patient and able to spend longer periods in protective styles naturally, then you are built for the natural staple of own hair braids and/or twists. The more frequently you wet the style (for moisture or for cleansing), the more of a fuzz halo — as I call it — you will have. This are the tiny bits of frizz or fuzz that form over time with braids or twists. Naturally you can try the smooth hair trick mentioned above but there is a point when it no longer works substantially. The one danger that you must avoid is spending too long in braids or twists. Lint and matting can really undo progress rapidly so it is essential that you know the point when your hair is no longer benefitting from being in a protective style. This can be as short as 2 weeks or as long as 8 weeks depending on your texture, strand thickness and density. You can gradually extend your time to see what is your personal limit.

Ladies, are you more like #1, #2 or #3? What is your protective style of choice and how does it fit your personality?

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I’m a #2. One of the reasons I stopped relaxing is because I couldn’t stand my hair looking shoddy with all the breakage. I want to enjoy my hair and if it breaks, I’ll cut it and start again!


I am more like 3 but only because I am lazy. I don’t like the halo , but I’m coming to accept it. *shrug*


definitely a #2. lol even when I was a kid, I’d take out the braids a week into doing them. lucky my hair was long then, i think my mum would’ve killed me otherwise. My hair grew quite a bit with braid outs though and since I had it braided in a way that still looked stylish, i could just leave it in when i was being lazy or for finals/days i’m not going out


I’m 2/3 when I am a 2 I like to do a afro puff or flat twist out when I’m 3 it’s a nice protective bun style every day of the week or for two weeks.
Water is my best friend.

#2 over here. I like to wear my hair out as often as I can and, while I’m concerned with health, length is my #1 priority (ranks after health and style). After being natural for a grand total of ten years (with a texlax about 7 years in — and then going back to being a natural), I found that the longer my hair got, the more I ogled at fierce, short-medium hair so, this time around, I’m just doing what makes me happy. I just remember that it’s only hair and that I should have fun with it this… Read more »

I am a definite number 2. Protectives styles that take an eternitiy to do and to take down are not for me. I also hate to wear the same style too long. So that’s why I rely on updos and big chunky twisted updos

African Naturalista

I am so number 3.


I am a combination of 2 and 3. I want my hair to look cute while growing but SAVES TIME as well. So if I can get a cute protective style that I don’t have to actively worry about or keep a strict regimen with then I’ am good…lol


I’m 2/3. I’d like to look nice, but I always try to handle my hair with good care. I also like that this piece states that buns don’t work for everyone! I’ve heard a lot about bunning to protect lately, and i tried it but it was a fail! My hair is about 11 inches at the longest part, but it is so coily that buns put a lot of tension on my edges.


I am definitely a type three. I am determined to achieve length and strength.


I identify with #2 –I like my hair to look cute at all times. I like buns because they’re quick, cute, easy and protective.

With that said, I am very patient with my hair. I generally treat my hair gently — from finger-detangling, deep conditioning, cleansing, moisturizing to styling. This has helped me retain length over the years.


3. Patienc is definitely a virtue especially with my hair that grows ultra slow.


can anyone tell me how to do the protective style in the picture??? It’s gorgeous!! I’m a two , my hair loves protective single braids, but I cant stand it.


I’m a #3. I rather do mini twists for roughly two weeks, which can cause that fuzz halo. But I work with it. *shrugs*

When I was still transitioning from heat damage, I used to wear my curls in a wash-and-go It literally hurt my feelings to wear it up in a bun or any other kind of protective style (just being honest). Now that I’ve finally chopped off the last of the loosened ends, I am still team #washandgo all the way, but not because I hate wearing my hair up. I actually like buns now. I’ve just realized how lazy I am when it comes to styling my hair. I will spend hours deep conditioning, doing hot oil treatments, creating ayurvedic… Read more »
Olivia Lane

I love wash and go’s too. They aren’t protective but I love showing off my supertight coils! I can’t wear my hair like that in the winter though. It’s too cold here in the northeast and I get hat head!


I’m number 3! I used to be like number 2 but now I’m definitely a 3!!!


I’m number 2, but I still keep the health and length of my hair in mind.


I am #1 but I am not big on miracle products, or I just good multi-tasker not loyal on a particular brand nor am I a product Junkie. I realize that extensions are the way to go for me, but funny thing is I haven’t worn extensions (of any kind) in almost 5 years


I’m #1 and 3. I can’t stand to keep braids/twists in my hair too long and I will get bored easily. A wig for me is a great way to switch up without much investment. However, when I don’t want the wig, a bun is my best friend.


I am number #2 and #3. I personally love protective styles and don’t see them as a bad thing or a pain. However, I HATE my hair to look fuzzy. I do medium-sized twists on my hair once a week. I get to wash and condition my hair, change it up, and retain length. Can’t get better than that!

Umah Luar

I would love to see a post on: ‘Finding a pro-style that fitts your FACE SHAPE’
Fr myself i mimic Phylicia Rashad because we have the same face shape, plus i like her style and sophistication.

Guest —different protective styles!


WELL it’s official… I’m with the #3s I’ve learned patience && My hair is definitely growing. Don’t get me wrong tho… my hair has got to be cute too!!! But everybody is sooo drastically different some days I’m all over this..other days I’m so in love with this.


i am for sure #2. my hair is so fine. it’s growing at the pace it wants to, but i don’t know how well other protective styles would look on me other than having braids in fine hair. it’s been a while since i’ve had them, but not sure if i’d go back to them 🙂

I’d like to add that if you do a workout program that involves some type of cardio or if you swim, it would be good if the protective style is firm and holds up. A protective style that is too loose and delicate is going to keep drooping down while you’re hopping around or while you’re in the water. I have found that the more delicate protective puffier or bigger protective styles are fine for when I’m not working out. Lastly, I think many naturals have perfected protective styling so well that the protective style often looks just as good… Read more »
Olivia Lane
This is a fun article. I love that you included wigs! I move in a cycle: chunky post-wash braids under an Afro wig (1–2 days)> braid out (1–3 days) > two strand twist (stays neat 3–5 days) > fuzzy twists under Afro wig (1- 2 days) > and, finally, my favorite: twist out (3–5 days). After almost 2 weeks, I wash it again and repeat. A lot of people think that’s not often enough to wash, but I don’t use a lot of product in my hair. Just aloe, water, some essential oils, and coconut or olive oil. I did… Read more »

I am a #3. I have tons of patience but my styles are high buns when I’m at work or ms.ceily plats hidden under a bonnet/beret. When I wear the hats I MUST MUST MUST wear make up, cute earrings, and other accessories to make my face the center of attention and away from the fact that my hair is not visible.


I am definitely a type 2! My hair should actually be much longer than it is now, but with the stress of my daily schedule I don’t have the time. I’m not retaining length because I can’t properly take care of it. And the fact that braids cost to much and I cannot do any protective styling to save my life. Any one have suggestions for 4a-4b hair that are low maitainence and easy?


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