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Stephanie in the Netherlands // Natural Hair Style Icon

• Oct 10, 2011

*Prepared for BGLH by Meosha Tall of 1MeNaturally

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Introduce yourself!
My name is Stephanie. I sleep in Zoetermeer, The Netherlands. (I intentionally say sleep because I’m more or less “living my life” in Amsterdam and Rotterdam.) I’m reppin’ Konongo, Ghana. The fatherland – the home where the heart is. I study Comparative Arts and Cultural Studies at the Radboud University Nijmegen. I’m one of the contributing editors for and also a member of n8pro, an initiative that advises various cultural institutions in Amsterdam and surroundings. Next to that I also have a side job as a customer service representative for a well known international carrier.

What is the natural hair scene like in the Netherlands?
I don’t think our scene differs that much from yours because the Internet blurs all geographical borders. All the websites, blogs, Tumblr pages, YouTube tutorials etc. are accessible by anyone in any country at any time. Since Dutch people tend to look up to American culture and get easily influenced by it, we immediately picked it up when the natural hair scene in the US blew up. Although I can count the websites on maintaining our hair on one hand it’s great to see people are getting more aware of the beauty of it and celebrating it. There is even an annual beauty pageant for natural hair.

In the past few months the media has been picking up rocking natural hair as a “trend” and “being hip”. Although I think it’s a bit weird how wearing out the hair you were born with is seen as hip and trendy, it does bear fruit by offering the majority of the people a broader perspective.

When did you go natural?
It’s an overstatement to say that I really thought over going natural. I just did it. Yes, I did it myself standing in front of the mirror in the bathroom with sewing scissors. I think it was in ’07 when I started to get really tired to say the least, of maintaining relaxed hair. The burn marks as a cause of flat ironing while in a hurry weren’t a good look and you’re not even allowed to sweat! After not having my hair relaxed for quite some time I started noticing a cute curly outgrow and all I thought was “lemme see more of that!” Nothing revolutionary really.

In what ways (if any) has going natural affected you?
Overall it made me more conscious of the products and ingredients that will boost my inner and outer health balance. But what has affected me the most is not the going natural itself, but seeing, hearing and feeling peoples’ misconceptions about natural hair. If I knew that rocking my natural ‘fro would cause such a stir I would’ve thought twice. Fortunately I’ve got thick skin and a sharp tongue, but some days I wish I could get unnoticed. Strut the street without people staring at me and making (degrading) remarks. Whether you think I’m dope for rocking a ‘fro or even the exact opposite that’s alright, but remember my hair doesn’t make me different from anyone else. In terms of hair, I’m not here to make a change, I’m here to stay the same…and now THAT is revolutionary.

How would you describe your hair?
This is such a confronting question because I really don’t know. All I know is that I’ve got a lot of hair. My hair is quite thick and dense, super unpredictable and only really defined and curly from the moment I step out of the shower ‘til I touch it, and after I take out my two strand twists.

What’s your regimen?
I have been using CURLS products for quite some time now. My hair loves the Coconut Sublime Conditioner and the Whipped Cream. I also make my own glycerine spritz and use some pure shea butter every now and then. Since Fall is on its way I started using the MYhoneychild Honey Love Moisturizer again once a week. I use Urtekram Shampoo. My favourite one is the one with a mixture of rhassoul (african soap mud), aloe vera, coconut and corn sugar soap, etc.

As far as my regimen goes, I wash my hair with shampoo and comb it out with a wide tooth comb while the shampoo is still in my hair. After that I rinse out the shampoo and add way too much conditioner to my hair. Then I comb it again with a medium tooth comb and twist my hair while the conditioner is still in. I rinse out the conditioner with lukewarm to cold water while my hair is twisted. At last I spray the glycerine spritz on my hair, apply the CURLS Whipped Cream and twist my hair once again. I wrap my hair in a piece of satin fabric and let my hair dry overnight. 9 out of 10 times it isn’t fully dry the next day so the first day after I’ve washed is usually a bad hair day. (I hardly wear out protective styles).

What mistakes have you made with your hair that you’ve learned from?
Dyeing it with Schwarzkopf hair dye.

What’s the best/most effective thing you do for your hair?
Doing a super chunky twist out every night.

What would you like to see in the Netherlands in terms of haircare?
Like I said there aren’t many websites on haircare so you can imagine there are even less web shops offering natural hair products. And all products are being imported from the US so it’s like double the price yall have to pay! So it’s obvious that I would like to see a bigger range of products to choose from for a reasonable price. I know it’s wrong for me to say, but I like if not love, your unstable dollar! Hehe.

Is there a blog/webpage where we can find you?
S: and when the time is right I’ll be back on Facebook.

About Meosha

Just another lover of natural hair and expression. - Style Icon Coordinator for BGLH

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26 Comments on "Stephanie in the Netherlands // Natural Hair Style Icon"

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OMG OMG OMG!! Can we talk about the clothes!!! LOVING IT (plus the hair of course)


so gorgeous and love her sense of style


Beautiful hair! Can you tell what style you’re wearing when it’s pulled back? It’s looks really comfortable, soft & pretty.


As a fellow Dutchie, I wonder how you manage to wear your hair out so much! I only manage when it’s not winter/raining/humid, which leaves about five days in the year, lol. Seriously, how do you do it?
It’s always so much fun for me to see how other naturals dress their hair and their bodies, particularly when they have a very unique and beautiful style. Heel mooi 🙂


The hair looks really good and it’s so thick. The outfit pieces came out great, some of them I would never have thought to put all together but it looks great.




I can see why people are always staring at her! Gorgeous woman with great hair and a great (and unique) sense of style. I love what she said about staying the same.

Since going natural, I have been more adventurous with my style. If I am going to be noticed anyway I might as well be as out there as I want without fear of not conforming. I am growing increasingly impervious to the stares.


It’s so wonderful seeing a fellow Dutch natural being featured here ^^

Your hair is echt mooi!



Amma Mama

#GO GHANA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


i know,was so excited to read she’s from Ghana n she’s so pretty hihihhi

Tequila b

Love this! i used to live in Bussum,Noord- Holland Netherlands and believe it or not but natural hair is respected more than straight hair there. Every woman of color you see on screen has natural hair in the Netherlands (It’s inspiring). There are tons of Afro catering salons in Amsterdam and Almere.


It’s true what Tequila b says on screen in advertising brochures and magazines you always see natural hair. In the Netherlands many people of color wear their natural hair men and women. Especially the Cape Verdean and Moroccans youth. And from young men and men you will get more attention with natural hair, I noticed.


Beautiful hair! Beautiful woman! Happy to see a fellow Ghanaian reppin #Team Natural!


gotta love my sister, lookin good and unique as always


So beautiful! And the sense of style — Wow! I am impressed and inspired!


I completely can relate to her comment about sometimes wishing you can go unnoticed in public. Although I’m becoming more comfortable with the frequent stares I receive in public, I wish people would focus less on my hair at times. There are more important things going on in the world, other than my curly afro. I cannot wait until the day when rocking an afro or one’s own natural hair is no longer a big deal!



I think I saw you @ appelsap festival and thought you and your hair were absolutely stunning!!! Such a small world we live in!


So Hot! Love it!!!!


i love ur hair but most of all i love ur outlook on being a natural ! its absolutely inspiring !!


Loving it!
U know u’re my girl and i’m a big fan 🙂
Hairdo always looks nice!
& style well y’all saw the pictures!


I absolutely LOVE your blog! I just added it in my bookmarks! LOL!


beautiful beautiful!


This girl is so beautiful.. I also study in Nijmegen… Saw her one time on the train just when i had to get off„ I couldnt take my eyes off of her hair.

Yay! I’m so happy to have our Stephanie featured on one of my favourite hair sites! I share many of Stephanie sentiments about hair, so again it’s beautiful to see her featured here. It’s indicative of a worldwide movement to just love self, and how much we’re alike than we are no matter what part of the world we come from. Women of colour share similar struggles with our hair and it’s great to see a collective sharing pot of opinions, reasons, ideas, etc, on hair. But, I must say (I’m bias of course) Stephanie not only has amazing hair,… Read more »

Her hair, style and philosophies are beautiful and she‘s Ghanaian (like me)! What‘s not to love?

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