M: I live in Atlanta GA, Iโm a bartender.
When did you go natural?
M: I went natural in 2004. I did protective styles for about 3 1/2 years and I still wear protective styles sometimes. I wasnโt really around my family when I decided to go natural. They donโt have a problem with it and they like my hair now. Now, at work it was a different story. I been called nappy head and told I need a perm. It hurt my feelings at first because I was transitioning and I didnโt know how to handle negative remarks in the beginning.
I started to learn the history and the science of my hair so when people say something negative I could handle myself alot better. Now when they something negative, I tell them Iโm only expressing myself culturally and I do not follow the European or western standards of beauty. I like the freedom of being natural. My hair grows much more without the aid of chemicals.
What do you use in your hair?
M: I use mostly natural products โ Burt Beeโs shampoo and conditioner, cantu shea butter, and 100% pure extra virgin coconut oil. I donโt use alot of products.
What mistakes have you made with your hair that youโve learnt from?
M: When I was transitioning I did a big chop on my hair leaving barely 2 inches. I went to a stylist to get comb twist and she used brown stying gel to hold the curls or twist. The gel severely damaged my hair, leaving it very dry and brittle. I had to cut my hair again and at the time I didnโt know anything about maintaining natural hair. My lesson is donโt let everyone in our head and learn how to maintain your natural hair. I am very thankful for YouTube.
What is the best/most effective thing you do for your hair?
M: The best thing I do for my hair is saturate it in coconut oil overnight once a week. I wash out the coconut oil in the morning. The coconut oil leaves my hair very soft and it stimulates hair growth.
If your hair had a nickname what would it be?
M: I would call it Biggie, because itโs huge especially if I blow dry it out.
Gorgeous hair and beautiful girlโฆI have some serious hair envy going on right now!
Thatโs some fabulous hair youโve got there.
Beautiful Hair!
I love her low puff! Her hair reminds me a lot of mine.
Beautiful Woman, BEAUTIFUL HAIR! Love it!
i loove her hair and the hair nickname ๐
My Godโฆsheโs just gorgeous!
Lovely hair! Loves it. I too have hair envy which is quite bad because I do not know if my hair can ever be as full and as long as Monique/several of the other natural women listed on this blog despite my efforts of keeping my hair healthy. Yes, I know that healthy hair doesnโt equate to long hair, but for someone that has been natural for years (9 years this month) and keep my hair pretty maintained, I often wonder why I donโt seem to be able to grow my hair anywhere close to the above picture. While I… Read more »
There are plenty of 4a/b women out there, but you have to do your research. I have 3b hair but I open my horizon to other hair types. But to list a few on youtubeโฆrusticbeauty,sera2544,longhairdontcare2010 and many moreโฆ I hope this helps, and remember that your hair has to do with not only you but your diet and genetics too!!
Love her hair (& her name, lol)โฆL โ could you ask her if her hair is blown out or stretched in the pics???
I absolutely LOVE her mane of hair! Itโs awesomeโฆ big hair is beautiful to me.
thatโs the most gorgeous hair ever
so beautiful
my breath caught in my throat when i saw this young lady, her face is so beautiful, her hair, also beautiful, was an after thought!!
Wow!! Beautiful!! Monique you have a wonderful head of hair and a beautiful face! Go girl! Iโve noticed that as my hair gets long my routine gets short, especially when it comes to products and adding this and trying that. I stick with the ones that work and keep it moving!
Thanks for the post BGLH
This is why I love this blog so much. Every day, pictures of beautiful women with beautiful hair keep me motivated and remind me of why I want natural hair. @CO, Leila has featured plenty of women with tighter coils who have long hairโฆ go through the archives, and you will see. In particular, there is Seraโ I think the tag is long 4b hair and it was posted around August or September of 2008. Look up Seraโs youtube channel (Sera2544), and you will see: her hair is a 4a/4b mix (predominantly 4b, in her own words) and it is… Read more »
@CO, piggybacking on kendredbโs comment โ also, on youtube, check out RusticBeauty, mwedzi, marand313, and herFLYness79, just to name a fewโฆall of these women have GORGEOUS 4A/4B hair typeโฆ
@CO I have to disagree. One of the main reasons I follow this blog so closely is because it is not saturated with 3A like some other blogs I know. Instead thereโs a great mix and if anything thereโs overrepresentation of 4a women. Maybe the predominate and that is why. I donโt know but itโs an idea to consider. A blogger named JC who often comments here has a blog called โthenaturalhavenโ at blogspot dot com. She lists a few women with 4A and 4B hair that have grown it to great lengths. In addition to the YouTuber, Sera, that… Read more »
Thank you Kinreb and thanks Leila for the work you do.
She has great hair.
Sheโs so pretty! I love her hair. I was thinking about doing a big chop again because Iโm in that in between stage of growing my hair out, itโs not short but itโs not long either. She just inspired me to keep growing it, I want my hair to be big and bodacious by the summer now lol.
CO in regards to the no girls with 4 type hair with long hair..check out BelleMuse, on this website she has GORGEOUS long hair..that iโm so jealous of, lol.
Iโm in teh same bout, been natural for years ( didnโt take care of it the whole time ) and often get frustrated with growthโฆ
weโll get there, and if not, just hopefully to a comfortable position.
My hair wants to be like this when it grows up. Ponytail and all
just beautiful! and sheโs stunning!
I just wanted to add some more YouTubers with 4a/4b hair:
BeautifulBrwnBabyDol
curlychronicles
AyannaNaeela
BlackOnyx77
glamazini
HoneyChild36
hopeday1
jaybby04
misskrisnew
THIS IS MONIQUE, YES I BLOW DRY MY HAIR TO MAKE IT BIGGER. I HAVE 4A/4B HAIR. THANK YOU ALL FOR THE WONDERFUL COMPLIMENTS. STAY NATURAL!
Monique,
My name is Dingane Baruti. May take you to dinner? I live in Columbus, GA and frequently spend my weekends in ATL with my brother. I offer you good conversation and a single rose for your hair.
I actually think that this blog does a great job of showing texture diversity. But thatโs the beauuty of natural hair, one day I had where my mini fro in itโs tight coils the next I can do a twist out or bantu knots out that give the look of looser curls. Her hair is ver similiar to mine if I blow dry is even though my coils are tight, but I get impression from all of my fellow naturals.
BEAUTIFUL!
Thanks everyone! this is why I love this site b/c people are soo helpful and willing to share their best practices and resources.
Monique, I loooooove your hair! Itโs so gorgeous and full. That is officially my goal length for my hair right now. How long is your hair in the back i.e. bra strap length?
@dingane00..LOL. I love this site too so much good info for naturals with all hair types!
Do you have a Fotki page? or are you on Youtube?
I am in love with Moniqueโs hair. I could tell she had 4a/4b texture, because thatโs the way mine looks when I blow it out (texture, not length yet). Question for Monique: do you have a difficult time getting the ends to blow out as well? The two times Iโve blown out my hair, it always has tiny little curls at the end that I just canโt get out.
Also wanted to add that the low puff is so classy!
i absolutely LOVE seein my happy 2 B nappy sistas wearin their hair out!!! I love how great they look,and I love seein the looks from whyt folx as they strut by!!! LOLOL
OMG! I know jealousy is the devilโs work but ooowee! That hair. if mine does not grow out to be that big I will go back to my relaxer days (I kid). Gorgeous hair. Gorgeous face.
Adore your big hair Monique!!! simply beautiful. do you have a fotki, or blog, would love to see your other styles. i canโt believe the nerve of some people who want to tame all that fabulosity! ๐
โtameโ ๐
OhhMG! Your hair is everything I want mine to be! Big, thick, and HEALTHY!!! I canโt wait to get to this part of my hair journey! Such an inspiration! You (and your hair) are incredibly beautiful!
I cut off my natural hair 9 months ago on a whimโฆ went bald. Now it is shoulder-length (no heat) and I figure itโll be the length of Moniqueโs in 2 years. ๐ Slowly but surely. I love my natural hair ๐
Your hair is lovely.
YAAASSSSSS gorgeous woman, gorgeous hair. I love it. Monique, letโs see a blog or a Fotki, get out there! ๐
@AMarieโฆ your hair grew from Bald to shoulder length in 9MONTHS!? wowโฆ do you have a Fotki, blog or youtube? i would love to see your trasition..
Iโm glad I read the commentโs because I see your hair generated confusion in some. 4b hair is so versatile, it can appear to be many different textures depending on how it it styled. This prompted me to add some photos of my daughterโs and my hair in itโs shrunken and dry state to the hair album I will be sharing with bglh, so that no confusion over texture happens. People need to understand that 4b is super versatile in itโs appearance, that way people can understand that about their own 4b hair. My and my childrenโs hair is 4b… Read more »
*Not the Featured Monique*
4b hair is EXTREMELY versatile, I have 4b hair. The best way for me to tell if someoneโs hair is similar to mine is to see it when itโs wet. Sometimes I look at womenโs hair that claim 4b, and Iโm likeโฆSOOOโฆdoes that make me a 4c/d/e??? lol
There are some women with 4b long undefined coiled hair. However, I do think itโs easier for 4bโs like myself to grow long APL hair via locs. Itโs difficult to retain length with hair so tightly wound!
wowโฆshe has gorgeous eyes. That last pic with her hair in a low puff is wicked!! very nice
[โฆ] hair just elevates a black womanโs face. Itโs really hard to describe, but check out this woman called Monique who is featured on Black Girl with Long Hair today. She has a gorgeous bunch of Afro hair on her head. If she was after your man, you better be [โฆ]
@Claire
I do not have a Fotki or a YouTube channel, abd my blog rarely touches on the topic of hair.
I did not think my hairโs growth to be spectacular, but I can hopefully answer any questions you have (aconerlycoleman@gmail.com) My routine was simple- co-wash, moisturize, avoid heat and combs, protective styling.
My hair is mostly 4B, some 3C in the back. Frankly, I prefer the 4Bโฆ it holds styles better (more versatile like Monique said ๐ )
BEAUTIFUL (hair and face)
Oh, and @ CO,
That is most definitely NOT 3a hair (3a is probably like Chilliโs from TLC). Itโs in the 4- familyโฆno doubt. A ton of 4โs are represented on this site. That is whatโs so great about this site
Monique,
Thanks for sharing your pictures and story. You and your hair are GORGEOUS!!! I long for the day when my hair gets to be like yours. God blessโฆ
Her hair is BEAUTIFUL!!
Gorgeous, gorgeous, gorgeous! Hair and face. That low puff is making me extremely envious, tooโฆ
I absolutely love that we have the same name so itโs only befitting that her hair is awesome. I love the fullness of your hair and you can tell that you do take really good care of it.
I would just like to thank you for posting this profile on Monique. Its becasue of her that I did my Big Chop. I figured, if she went from having โbarely 2 inchesโ of natural to this huge, beautiful, healthy head of hair, then so can I. so thank you. ๐
P.S. I BCโd the same day Jan. 06th and Iโve been more than content with my hair
gorgeous.. i just moved back to atl.. i need to find her lol
Your hair is very beautiful. I BCโed on the first day of this year. I have been tracking my hair growth, lessons, learned, etc on the blog I just created. Im gonna try the coconut oil thing because even though I have silk pillow cases, I still loose moisture somehow.
Thanks for your post! Please visit my blog
http://nellisadventura.blogspot.com/
Absolutely Beautiful!!!
Monique is a great inspiration to us all! Iโm still learning Iโve just been a year into it since I transitioned and I feel โJoyfulโ everyday..It would be great though if you could give us a tutorial on your nightly ritual!!!!
Wow! It seems like everyone just wanted a fresh start for 2010! I also big chopped in the very beginning of the year. I love your hair, its so beautiful. Youโre inspirational.
Go see my blog I have pictures there!
http://nellisadventura.blogspot.com/
Your hair is so beautiful. I used to be natural back in college, and my hair was as big as yours. People always thought I was wearing a wig. I miss the uniqueness of my hair from back then. It grew so much faster & healthier. Iโm gonna go back natural real soon. Cause we shouldnโt be ashamed of who we are as black women, or of our hair. Much love.
Ebbie
Hey, Right now I want to go natural. I live in Colorado so I dont have anyone to style or help with the process. I want to know did u do the big chop and then started using these products u mentioned? I currently dont have any new growth all my hair is permed. Do I need to wait until I have new growth? Also how long did it take for your hair to grow out that long?
I love your hair. It is very beautiful, BIG, and vibrant. Iโm natural and I love it. Itโs only been 15 months now since Iโve been natural. Iโm having difficulty using the right products for my hair. The only products Iโm confortable using in my hair is: water, shea butter, and grape seed oil. shampoo & conditioner? Iโm having a battle (lol). Can you give me some advice how to care my hair so it can grow BIG and beautiful like yours?
My next year will be brighter after reading this post!
All of people New Year might be greater being aware of that!
@ CO..There are plenty of 4a/b women out there, but you have to do your research. I have 3b hair but I open my horizon to other hair types. But to list a few on youtubeโฆrusticbeauty,sera2544,longhairdontcare2010 and many moreโฆ I hope this helps, and remember that your hair has to do with not only you but your diet and genetics too!!
wow beautiful hair I love the length. Please provide us with where we can see more of your hair.
Anybody who says something to her is a hater, because sheโs so radiant itโs incredible. I donโt believe for a second sheโd look half as good with straight hair. What a beauty!
Gosh! Beautiful, beauuutiful! Itโs obvious people are just hating on her.
Monique: I have lived in the ATL for most of the last 28 years. I went dread in 1988โฆin fact, I was the first sistah to wait tables in the better restaurants with locks (Buckhead, Midtown, VA-HI)โฆyep, I sure wasโฆmade plenty of good money toโฆafter all, it is how you present, convey and exude yourself that makes the differenceโฆand interestingly enough it was the black ppl of the ATL that I encountered the most comments fromโฆmind you, this was almost 25 years agoโฆso dreads were not as common as they are today. We may always hear the internalized self-hatred from our… Read more »
Monique, I love love love your hair! I would love for mine to look like yours; I just donโt have that length at this pointโฆ But it is gorgeous sis!
Most of the people who invest in diamonds almost never offer them. These days probably 80% from the diamond offered while in the United states of america and throughout the entire world do not reseller diamonds. So handful of folks really sell their diamonds..
She has BEAUTIFUL hair!
Youโre hair is beautifulโฆdonโt let anyone tell you different
Love ya hair